My ex moved on so fast. How can I overcome the pain?

What they do doesn't matter and it's completely irrelevant to your healing process, though it’s valid to hate and judge them harshly for leaving the way they did.

And during this process, they either started seeing someone new who they planned to secure as their rebound option or were busy creating their post-breakup plan.

I.e. you thought that you had the perfect deal whereas they had already made up their mind and just weren't as emotionally invested in it as you were.

Having read so much about Archie and Lilibet not actually existing, does anyone have any proof that they not only exist but that Meghan gave birth to them?

You both are on polar opposites of the scale.

This happened long or shortly before they physically left.

This is why comparing yourself to them in terms of the healing process isn't going to help you in any way, shape or form.

Why do women stubbornly refuse to let men lead, even though they are attracted to the man, and the man both loves and desires them? Why do they get angry and blame the man when he gets fed up and walks away, when it's entirely their own fault?

Simply put, because they have been prepared and you weren't.

So, don't try to compete with them.

This is why you can't expect them to feel anything close to what you're feeling right now, because you and them are on a completely different stage in the healing process.

Why don’t people want the American Dream anymore - marriage, kids, a dog, and the white picket fence?

On their side, there has been a process of emotionally and mentally checking out while you were still together and while you were under the impression that everything is cool.

Instead, focus on taking care of, solving and healing what you are experiencing right now.